Public record · checked August 22, 2026
benny lichtenwalner complaints
You searched for complaints about me. Good. I’d rather you check than take a stranger’s word, mine included. This page is what the public record held when I looked on August 22, 2026, the refund terms you actually sign, the one complaint people do have about this kind of coaching, and how to run the same check on any coach you’re considering.
What the record holds, as of August 22, 2026
- BBBNo profile, no complaints
- TrustpilotNo page
- FTCNo results
- RedditNothing about Benny
There is no BBB profile for me, for Lover Fighter, for GYEB or for Warriors Quest LLC, the company I coach through. I have never sought accreditation, and the BBB has not created a profile on its own either. That matters for how you read it: the BBB can only hold a complaint against a business it lists, so “no complaints” here means “no record”, not a clean score. Trustpilot has no page for lover-fighter.com. The FTC’s site search returns zero results for my name. Reddit has nothing about me at all; the closest thing is a thread in r/ExNoContact where someone paid $500 for a lesson from another coach, named in the post, and was unhappy with what they got for it. That is a fair complaint about this industry and I’ll come back to it. It isn’t about me.
Google also surfaces two TikTok pages with my name on them, one titled “Coach Benny Reviews” and one with the word “scammer” in the address. Both are topic pages TikTok generates automatically from search phrases. The “reviews” one collects clips from other creators: a fitness book review, a football coach, and a breakup-advice account called @coachbenny5 that is not mine. I couldn’t get the “scammer” page to load any content at all, so I won’t tell you what’s on it. A page title built from a search query is not a complaint. My only handle is @bennylichtenwalner, and the legit page lists every site I run.
Benny Lichtenwalner refund policy
All sales are final once coaching or digital access has begun. If something is wrong with a charge, email [email protected] within 14 days and say what happened; I answer every one personally and sort billing problems out case by case before anyone needs to dispute a charge.
That is the whole policy, adopted August 22, 2026. Until now there was no refund page, which is probably why you’re here. The terms exist; they live in the client agreement every coaching client signs and in the checkout terms for a single call. Here is what they say, in plain words.
Payments are final. The agreement says so regardless of participation, results or whether you stop partway, with two exceptions: where the law requires a refund, and if I end a program early, in which case the unused part is refunded pro rata. You agree to start digital access right away and waive any cooling-off period where that is legal. Missed calls are not refunded. A single session booked through my store has to be scheduled and completed within 90 days, and a 15-minute no-show forfeits it. Before any chargeback, the agreement asks you to email me and allow 14 days to resolve it (the store terms say 10 business days). A chargeback on a valid charge is a material breach of the agreement. Raising a good-faith billing question with me or your card issuer does not, by itself, end your Continued Support.
All sales are final once coaching or digital access has begun. If something is wrong with a charge, email [email protected] within 14 days of the charge and say what happened. I answer every one personally and sort billing problems out case by case before anyone needs to dispute a charge.
What that means in practice: if you were charged twice, charged the wrong amount, or charged for something you never got, write to me and it gets fixed. If you finished three weeks of coaching and your ex didn’t come back, that isn’t a billing error, and the agreement you signed says no outcome was promised. I know that’s a hard line to read when you’re hurting. It’s the same line I’d want written down before I paid anyone. Prices are on the cost page: $499 for a single session, mid four figures for ongoing coaching, quoted per situation. Slate printed lower numbers in 2024; those were the prices then.
The one complaint people do have
Nobody can promise you that another person will change their mind. Not me, not any coach. Every honest complaint about ex-back coaching comes down to that gap between what someone hoped they were buying and what anyone can sell. When Slate profiled this industry in June 2024 they quoted a Columbia psychiatry professor on why: a breakup can feel like a threat to your survival at a physiological level, and someone in that state is vulnerable to a pitch. I was in that piece, with my prices of the time, and I told the reporter something I still believe: a lot of people hear the plan and won’t be able to run it, because it asks for more emotional discipline than most people have right after a breakup.
So here is what I will and won’t promise. I will tell you, in the first call, if I think your situation is done. I won’t quote you odds, because there are no audited odds in this business, and anyone who gives you a percentage is quoting marketing. I sell a method, my time, and straight answers. The agreement puts it in writing: no outcome is guaranteed, and testimonials are not typical or predictive. The reviews on this site are real client messages; the collection skews positive because it documents wins people chose to share, and it says so. Some are from people whose win was healing or moving on, not getting the ex back.
How to check any coach yourself
Run the same check I ran above, on me and on whoever else you’re considering. It takes ten minutes and none of it requires trusting a review site, including this one. Search the coach’s name and company at bbb.org, and look up the name at bbb.org/scamtracker/lookupscam. Put trustpilot.com/review/ in front of their domain and see whether a page exists. Search their name on the FTC’s site (the search lives at search.usa.gov with the FTC affiliate). Search Reddit for the coach’s name, their handle and the company, and read the threads rather than the result count, because a thread that names a different coach will still show up. Then read the checkout page before you enter a card: is the price shown before you click buy, are the refund terms written down, and does the same person who made the videos actually do the coaching? If a coach’s own terms say all sales are final, as mine do, decide whether you’re fine with that before you pay, not after. And if they guarantee your ex back, close the tab.
One more thing to decide before hiring anyone, me included: whether you should hire a coach at all. I wrote up when coaching is worth it and when it isn’t, and the honest answer includes “often, no.” Coaching is not therapy. If you’re not sleeping, not eating, or having thoughts of hurting yourself, that is a licensed professional’s job, and in the US you can call or text 988 any hour.
What is Benny Lichtenwalner’s refund policy?
All sales are final once coaching or digital access has begun; that is what the client agreement and the checkout terms say, and there is no money-back window. The two exceptions are where the law requires a refund and where I end a program early, in which case the unused part is refunded pro rata. If a charge is wrong, email [email protected] and say what happened; the agreement asks you to allow 14 days to resolve it before any chargeback.
Does Benny Lichtenwalner have a BBB profile or BBB complaints?
No. As of August 22, 2026 a search of bbb.org for “Lichtenwalner” returns no results, and so does a search for Lover Fighter in Atlanta, Georgia. There is no BBB profile, accredited or otherwise, for me, Lover Fighter, GYEB or Warriors Quest LLC, so there is no BBB complaint record either. The only Lichtenwalner results on the site are unrelated: a Pennsylvania realty company and an Alaska road name.
Is there a Coach Benny Trustpilot page?
No. trustpilot.com/review/lover-fighter.com returns a page-not-found error, and a Trustpilot search for my name brings up a dozen unrelated companies called Benny (a German coach with the same first name, a candle shop). None of them is me. If a Trustpilot page for me ever appears, I did not create it, and I will link it from this page.
Is there a Coach Benny scam complaint on Reddit?
I could not find one. A Reddit search for “lichtenwalner” returns German lighting threads and one r/ExNoContact post about paying $500 for a lesson from a different, named coach. It does not mention me. Searches for “bennylichtenwalner” and my old handle return nothing. A search for “coach benny” brings up soccer coaches and a gaming account from 2018.
What do people actually complain about?
That the ex did not come back. It is the one real complaint in this business and I say it up front: nobody can promise you another person’s decision, I do not sell a guarantee, and the client agreement says in writing that no outcome is promised. If you see a coach, me included, described as guaranteeing reconciliation, that is either a misquote or an impersonator.