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Relatio reviews: how much does Relatio cost, the no contact rule, and what Reddit says

You probably met Relatio the way Reddit did: an Instagram or Facebook ad, a few days after a breakup, promising a path back to your ex. I coach breakups for a living, so Relatio and I want the same customer. I haven’t installed or paid for it, and I won’t pretend to grade the lessons. What I can do is read every public page, the App Store listing, Trustpilot, and the Reddit threads, and tell you what checks out.

What Relatio is

Relatio is a mobile app on iOS and Android, listed in the App Store under the name “Relatio: Couples Relationship.” The company describes it as a space with guided courses for relationships, intimacy, and breakup healing or reconnection. The features listed on its site are a quiz that sorts you into a plan, guided practices and audio, an AI chat, daily motivations, a partner invite, and a “Breakup Reconnection program.” The App Store listing rates it 18+, shows 4.5 stars from roughly 12,000 ratings, and carries the line that the app is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice. That last part matters, and I’ll come back to it.

What you won’t find on the site is a person. The about page names nobody. There is no founder, no coach, no therapist, no credential. The terms of use name Brora Corp at an address in Las Vegas, with Delaware law and disputes heard in England and Wales. The App Store seller is a different company, ARBINARE LIMITED. None of that makes the app bad. It does mean that when the ad says “we,” there is no one you can look up.

How much does Relatio cost?

Relatio’s website doesn’t tell you. The subscription policy says pricing varies by subscription length, and no dollar figure appears on any page of getrelatio.com I read. The only prices the company publishes are in the App Store listing’s in-app purchase list: $7.99 a week, $19.99 a month, $39.99 for six months, $49.99 a year, and a “Coaching program” at $49.99.

The web funnel is where the complaints come from, and I can only give you user reports for it, because Relatio doesn’t publish those prices. In the r/productreview thread, one commenter paid $19.99 for four weeks and was then billed $47.99 a month. Another reported $81.99 a month after the first month. A third signed up on a $12 offer and was charged $20, then waited on a refund quoted at 14 business days. A French-speaking Reddit commenter reported 29 euros for a month. Recent one-star Trustpilot reviews cite an unexpected 50-euro charge after the first month, and a justuseapp review cites a recurring AU$90 charge. I can’t verify any single one of those numbers, and they disagree with each other, which is consistent with a funnel that shows different offers to different people. If you want to know what you’ll pay, the App Store list is the only published answer, and buying there also gives you Apple’s cancellation screen instead of an email thread.

On cancellation, the policy is unusually specific. You cancel by emailing the support address in the policy with the subject line “Unsubscribe,” and it takes effect after they send a confirmation. Charges are “generally non-refundable,” with no refund for cancelling partway through a period. EU residents can ask for a proportionate refund within 14 days of registering; California residents get a full refund if they cancel within three business days. The policy refers to a money-back guarantee on the website, but no such terms are published anywhere on getrelatio.com that I could find, so I’m treating it as not existing. For how these numbers sit against human coaches, mine included, see what breakup coaches actually cost.

Relatio no contact rule

Relatio’s no-contact article, published February 2026 under a “Relationship Editorial Team” byline, is better than I expected. It defines no contact as stopping all communication for a set period and recommends 30 days for relationships under a year, 60 for longer ones, 90 or more for long-term or high-conflict breakups, and indefinite silence where there was abuse. It says plainly that whether the relationship comes back depends on factors you can’t control. I’d sign most of that. My one addition: for most people the silence helps whether or not the ex returns, and the version aimed only at winning someone back tends to turn into waiting by the phone.

What the article sells is the app as a “structured daily plan” for the no-contact period, with daily exercises, expert guidance, and AI chat support. I searched for a named no-contact tracker or counter and found none on any page. The reconnection article from January 2026 is five steps: check your motivation, hold no contact for at least 30 days, check you’re ready, send one consent-first text, and accept a non-response. It makes no success-rate claim, and it says the app never contacts anyone on your behalf. That is more honest than most of the ex-back industry, and it also tells you something: the product is a self-work routine, not a way to get a specific person to text you.

On the abuse point: if the reason you’re apart involves abuse, an app is not the tool and neither is a coach. Coaching is not therapy, and Relatio’s own listing says it is not a substitute for mental health care. In the US, call or text 988 if you are in crisis.

Relatio reviews on Reddit

Three threads carry most of it. The r/productreview post “Relatio App Review: my thoughts,” from around December 2025, is the one people mean when they search “relatio reviews reddit.” The original poster said the plan “wasn’t about getting my ex back” and was aimed at self-focus, that they didn’t get their ex back, and that the subscription terms felt shady because cancelling means contacting support. The comments supplied the price reports above, called the intake quiz manipulative, noticed that the YouTube reviews of the app all sound the same, and wondered aloud whether the post itself was an ad. A good portion of the thread drifts into married couples discussing intimacy, which fits the app’s actual audience better than its breakup ads do.

The two r/BreakUps threads, from August 2025 and January 2026, are people asking whether the ads are real. One reply called it “too good to be true.” Another user said the advice “was mostly common sense,” didn’t get the ex back, and felt they ended things with dignity. The rest point to free YouTube and podcast advice. The pattern across all three threads is the same: the ad promises one thing (get them back), the product is another (work on yourself), and the thing people are angriest about is the bill.

getrelatio reviews on Trustpilot and the App Store

The averages are good. Trustpilot shows a 4.4 TrustScore from 1,346 reviews on a claimed profile, and the company invites customers to review, so the volume reflects solicited reviews as well as unprompted ones. The App Store average is 4.5. The recent one-star Trustpilot reviews, from August 2026, repeat the Reddit themes: a charge they didn’t expect after the first month, a signup that wasn’t clearly a subscription, and the word “scam,” which is the reviewers’ word and not mine. Relatio replies to those with a support email address. justuseapp shows a 4.6 average alongside reviews about a charge after cancellation and, on the other side, people calling it pricey but worth it. The third-party “is Relatio worth it” articles I could read are written by people selling a competing product (a rival app, a relationship book), and so is this page, which is why the disclosure sits at the top.

Relatio for men, and the rest of the searches

The “for men” searches likely trace to the app’s breakup ads and to one rival app’s review (itself selling a $14.99 a month product) that describes men’s pelvic-floor exercises and a seasons-based framework inside the app. I can’t confirm what’s inside, so take that as competitor-authored. “Relatio online free” gets you the blog articles, which are free and decent, and a quiz that leads to checkout; there is no free tier of the app I could find described. “Relatio near me” doesn’t mean anything; it’s an app, with no local coaches. And “getrelatio reviews” is mostly the platforms above plus the company’s own pages.

Relatio versus hiring a coach

Compare on the things you can check. Relatio shows its price only in the App Store, not on its site; I publish mine, $499 a session, and ongoing coaching runs to the mid four figures, quoted per situation. Relatio cancels by email and calls charges generally non-refundable; a session with a human is a single purchase you can stop after. Relatio names no one who does the coaching; with a coach you know exactly who is on the call, and you can read whether I check outbefore you book. Relatio’s article says the app will help you heal if reconnection isn’t the right path; what it can’t do is look at your specific situation and tell you, in plain words, to stop. A coach can, and I have, to people who didn’t want to hear it.

None of that makes the app the wrong choice. If you’re functional, money is tight, and you want a daily structure for your 30 days of silence, $19.99 on the App Store with a calendar reminder to cancel is a reasonable experiment, and the free articles alone cover the method. If you’ve already done a month of the method and you’re still stuck on your specific situation, that is when a person earns the fee. Read whether a breakup coach is worth it first; my honest answer there includes “often, no.”

How much does Relatio cost?

Relatio’s website doesn’t say. The only prices the company publishes are in the App Store in-app purchase list: $7.99 a week, $19.99 a month, $39.99 for six months, $49.99 a year, and a $49.99 “Coaching program.” People who bought through the web funnel report different numbers on Reddit and Trustpilot: $19.99 for the first four weeks and then $47.99 a month, one report of $81.99 a month after the first month, and one person who signed up on a $12 offer and was charged $20. I can’t confirm any of those from Relatio’s own pages, which is the point. You find out the real price at checkout, or on your next statement.

Is Relatio legit?

It’s a real app with real users: about 12,000 App Store ratings averaging 4.5, and 1,346 Trustpilot reviews at a 4.4 TrustScore. It is also a company that names no founder and no expert anywhere on its site, lists Brora Corp in Las Vegas on its terms and ARBINARE LIMITED as the App Store seller, and publishes no price. “Legit” and “worth your money” are different questions. The one-star reviews on Trustpilot call it a scam; I won’t use that word, because the pattern I see is a subscription business with hard-to-find pricing, which is common and legal. Whether it’s right for you depends on what you were promised by the ad.

Does Relatio have a no contact rule feature?

Not a named one that I could find. Its blog post on the no contact rule recommends 30 days for relationships under a year, 60 for longer ones, 90 or more for long-term or high-conflict breakups, and indefinite no contact where there was abuse. The app is pitched as a “structured daily plan” for that period, with daily exercises and AI chat support. Nothing on the site describes a counter, a tracker, or a day-by-day no-contact tool. If you saw one in an ad, check the App Store screenshots before you pay.

What do the Reddit threads say about Relatio?

Three threads carry most of the discussion. The r/productreview thread from late 2025 is the big one: the original poster said the plan was about self-work rather than getting an ex back, that they didn’t get their ex back, and that the subscription terms felt shady because you have to email support to cancel. Commenters added the price jumps above and said the signup quiz felt manipulative. The two r/BreakUps threads are shorter: people asking whether the Facebook and Instagram ads are real, and replies saying the advice is common sense you can get free on YouTube.

How do I cancel Relatio?

According to the subscription policy, by emailing Relatio’s support address (it’s in the subscription policy) with the subject “Unsubscribe.” Cancellation takes effect after they send a confirmation email, and the policy calls charges generally non-refundable, with no refund for cancelling mid-period. EU residents may get a proportionate refund within 14 days of registration, and California residents a full refund if they cancel within three business days. If you bought through the App Store rather than the website, cancel in your Apple subscriptions too; the policy doesn’t address that case, so do both.

Is Relatio or a breakup coach better for getting an ex back?

Neither can get your ex back, and anyone who says otherwise is selling. Relatio’s own reconnection article is honest about that: it says reconciliation depends on factors you can’t control, and that the app never contacts anyone for you. A subscription app gives you a daily plan for roughly $4 to $32 a month depending on the plan length, or whatever the web funnel charges you. A coach gives you a person who knows your specific situation and will tell you when to stop. I charge $499 a session, so for most people the app is the cheaper first try. If you’re still stuck after a month of doing the free version of the method, that’s when a human is worth paying for.

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