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Best get your ex back coach for men
You got dumped, you typed this into a search box, and the answers you got back were lists written by the coaches on them. This one is too, in a way: I coach breakups for a living, I coach men, and I compete with every name below. So I’ll grade each coach on the things you can check yourself and tell you when the right answer is to hire nobody.
The one question I graded on
Was this built for a man trying to get a woman back, or is it a general program with the pronouns swapped? Neither answer is automatically better. A men-only coach understands the way men talk themselves into the 2am text. A coach who works both sides has actually heard what the woman on the other end is thinking. What I watched for is the red-pill end of the market, where "get her back" turns into "make her chase you" and the advice quietly becomes contempt.
Corey Wayne
The most-cited men’s coach in this search. His site, understandingrelationships.com, has a category called "Get Your Wife / Girlfriend Back" and his books, starting with How To Be A 3% Man, run from $9.99 as an ebook to $59.99 in hardcover. Private phone or Zoom coaching is $1,250 an hour, audio only, one-time payment, and the page says he is usually sold out two weeks in advance. I could not find refund terms anywhere on the coaching page, and his about page lists no formal credentials; he calls himself a life and peak performance coach. On the red-pill question he is clearer than most: in a February 2024 episode of his own podcast, titled "The Red Pill Almost Ruined My Life," he argues that red-pill content makes men bitter and hurts them with women. Built for men, yes. At $1,250 an hour with no refund language, he is the most expensive coach on this page by a wide margin.
Dan Bacon (The Modern Man)
Men only, by design: the homepage calls him a dating and relationship expert for men. The ex-back product is the Get Your Ex Back Super System, $297 for about ten hours of video with lifetime access, plus bundles at $427 and $457. The refund line says you are welcome to contact them within 30 days to request one, which is softer than a plain guarantee. Slate’s 2024 piece put his YouTube at 431,000 subscribers. His about page returned a dead link when I checked in August 2026, so I can’t tell you his background or how long he’s been at this. The sales copy promises "the best, easiest, fastest and most effective way," and that sentence alone should slow you down.
Clay Andrews (Modern Love)
Clay gets named in the "for men" lists, and I’m not sure why, because he was never a men’s coach. His Ex Solution Program is gender-neutral, with testimonials from both men and women, and is built around communication and attachment rather than tactics. That makes him the opposite end of the market from the red-pill corner, which is a point in his favor. Two cautions. The program page says it is being discontinued after twelve years and is in final enrollment at $197, so the thing you’re reading about may not exist by the time you read this. And the refund is conditional: you get one if you complete the work with support and make no progress using the workbook, which is a judgment call on their side. His membership, the Modern Love Association, is $47 a month or $147 lifetime, no refunds, and says on its own page that it is not personalized advice. Current one-on-one pricing isn’t shown.
Brad Browning, Chris Seiter, and Coach Lee
These three are the general ex-back coaches, each with a men’s door. Brad Browning’s Ex Factor Guide splits into a men’s and a women’s version at the first click, sells for $47 under a 60-day ClickBank refund, and he holds a psychology degree from UBC. The publisher is LoveLearnings Media. My full take is in the Brad Browning review. Chris Seiter runs exboyfriendrecovery.com for women and a mirror, exgirlfriendrecovery.com, for men; the men’s PRO page shows a 30-day no-questions refund and states he charges $300 an hour for direct coaching. His course has no clinical credentials behind it; his degree is a humanities BA, per my review. Details in the Chris Seiter review. Coach Lee is $579 a session, with a $59 Emergency Breakup Kit on a 14-day refund and roughly seventeen years of divorce-prevention work behind him. He now sells a men’s course called Masculine Destiny that excludes pickup artistry by name; its price is not shown on the page, so I can’t quote it. The rest is in the Coach Lee review.
Best dating coaches for men
Search engines bundle this phrase with ex-back coaching, and the two are not the same job. A dating coach teaches you to meet new women. An ex-back coach works on one specific woman who already knows your flaws. Corey Wayne and Dan Bacon do both, which is part of why they rank for both. If what you want is to date again, a dating coach is the right hire and none of the ex-back programs above will help you much. If you want one particular person back, pickup-style advice will usually cost you the last of her goodwill.
Best relationship coach for men after a breakup
Different question again, and often the better one. If you can’t sleep, can’t work, or you’re drinking to get through the evening, the right professional is a licensed therapist, and coaching should wait. Coaching is not therapy. No coach on this page, me included, has a license to lose. If you are in crisis, or if the relationship involved abuse in either direction, call or text 988 in the US before you buy anything from anyone.
Free
The core method is free from every coach here, on YouTube, and that includes me. My no-contact tracker and the will-my-ex-come-back quiz need no email and no app. The free training is the same no-contact plan, for free, with no card. Run the free version for two weeks before you pay anyone.
People searching "get your ex back pdf for men" usually land on Browning’s $47 guide, Seiter’s $47 course with its 615-page PDF, or Bacon’s $297 download. I wrote a book too; it’s on my main site. I don’t give it away as a free PDF, and I won’t pretend a paid download is free to rank for the word.
What I do differently, and what I can’t claim
I charge $499 for a single session and mid four figures for ongoing coaching, quoted per situation, and both numbers are on the cost page before you talk to me. When Slate wrote about this industry in 2024 they printed my prices then: $350 for a 45-minute Zoom session and $499 for text access. I do the coaching myself. I coach men and women, and I told Slate at the time that my audience skews slightly toward women; I don’t publish a gender split, so I won’t claim here that my clients are mostly men. What I do publish is on my results page: over 600 documented client wins on file, reported in aggregate only, and a breakdown of 1,894 real client questions across 119 topics (a quarter of them about no contact, 3% asking whether the relationship was worth saving at all). No reconciliation rate, because nobody in this niche has one that would survive an audit. The reviews on this site are real client messages with names randomized, curated in one direction (non-reviews are excluded, nothing is invented), and the legit page lays out what you can verify about me and what you can’t.
How to compare any of us
Four checks, all doable from the sales page. Is the price shown before checkout? Corey Wayne, Bacon, Browning, Seiter and I show ours; Lee’s session price is on a sales page but not the booking page, per my Coach Lee review. What are the refund terms, in writing? Browning 60 days, Seiter and Bacon 30, Lee 14 on the kit, Andrews conditional, Wayne not shown. Who actually does the coaching? Lee has junior coaches on his team, Seiter’s page prices his own hourly rate, Browning’s one-on-one is email only, and Wayne, Bacon and Andrews don’t say on their pages who answers. And will the coach say no? Look for any sentence on the site that admits the outcome isn’t for sale. Mine is on the worth-it page: your ex’s decision is not for sale, and coaching isn’t worth it if you’re buying an outcome. The full market table, with sources, is on what breakup coaches cost.
Who should not hire me
Don’t hire me if you want a script that makes her come back, because I don’t have one and neither does anyone else. Don’t hire me if the breakup was this week; go quiet, use the free tracker, and talk to me in a couple of weeks if you’re still stuck. Don’t hire me if $499 would hurt, because a $47 course plus two weeks of silence is where I’d start. And don’t hire me if what you’re after is revenge or leverage. I’ll tell you no, and then you’ve paid for a no.
Who is the best get your ex back coach for men?
There is no audited answer, and anyone who gives you one without a disclosure is selling. The coaches built for men are Corey Wayne and Dan Bacon. Coach Lee, Chris Seiter and Brad Browning sell a general program with a men’s edition. Clay Andrews was never men-specific. I coach men and women and I’m one of the people being compared here, so read the page, check the sources, and pick by price shown, refund terms, and whether the coach will tell you no.
Are there get your ex back coach reviews for men on Reddit?
I couldn’t verify any thread worth citing, so I don’t quote Reddit on this page. Most of what you’ll find there is people asking the same question you are. The checkable facts are on each coach’s own sales page, and those are what I used.
Is there a free get your ex back program for men?
The method itself is free everywhere: go quiet, rebuild your life, come back as someone she’d want to talk to. My free training and the no-contact tracker are linked on this page and cost nothing, no email required for the tools. Most of the coaches named here publish their core advice free on YouTube. Pay only for a person who answers you.
Is there a get your ex back PDF for men?
Browning, Seiter and Bacon all sell PDFs or downloads in the $47 to $297 range; the details are in the comparison. My book is on my main site. I haven’t published a free PDF version, and I won’t tell you a paid one is free.
Do I need a coach who only works with men?
Not necessarily. A coach who only sees one side of breakups can miss what your ex is actually thinking. What matters more is whether the advice is about her as a person or about tactics that would work on any woman. If the program reads like a trick, it will read like a trick to her too.