The straight answer
Is Coach Benny legit?
If you searched "benny lichtenwalner reviews", "coach benny scam", or "is coach benny legit" — good. You should vet anyone before trusting them with your breakup. This page answers the common questions directly, including how this catalog is built and where it can be biased.
Is Benny Lichtenwalner a legit coach?
Yes. Benny Lichtenwalner is a real breakup and relationship coach — a USMC veteran and the author of "How to Get Your Ex Back" — who has worked with over 1,000 clients and students. This site publishes 481 documented client reviews (average 4.5/5), each drawn from a real client message with the original screenshot kept privately on file as provenance.
Are these reviews real?
Every review is a real message a client or follower sent — a DM, live comment, WhatsApp/text, or email — or a review submitted directly on this site and approved by a human. Names are randomized to protect client privacy (disclosed on every page), but the words are the clients’ own. We keep the original screenshots privately on file.
Why are the ratings so high — is that fake?
The archive reviews come from messages people sent after wins, so the sample skews positive by nature — nobody texts their coach about an average day. We disclose this openly rather than pretend it’s a random sample. Ratings are assigned by us to mirror each message’s sentiment using a published rubric; we never fabricate low ratings for messages that aren’t reviews.
Does getting your ex back actually work?
Sometimes. Lichtenwalner himself states that no coach can guarantee reconciliation and warns against anyone who promises it. His method focuses on becoming someone worth coming back to — which pays off whether or not the ex returns. Many reviews in this catalog are from people whose ex came back; others document wins in confidence, healing, and moving on well.
Is there a guarantee or refund policy?
Coaching outcomes can’t be guaranteed and no guarantee is sold. Questions about a specific program, billing, or refunds: email [email protected] for a direct answer.
How do I know this site isn’t cherry-picking?
It is curated in one direction only: messages that aren’t reviews (questions, context fragments) are excluded, and negative messages aren’t published as fake low-star reviews — they simply aren’t testimonials. What we never do: edit a client’s meaning, invent reviews, or fabricate ratings. The methodology is published on the Privacy Promise page.
Watch out for impersonators
Benny’s only handles are @bennylichtenwalner on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube, and his only websites are lover-fighter.com, bennylichtenwalner.com, and this reviews site. Accounts with slightly different spellings asking for money are scams — report them.